Wedding Anniversary

Hey guys sorry haven’t blogged in a while on here. It’s been such a crazy few weeks with work and had a lot going on at home in terms of decorations to repairs etc so it’s been super packed..

How’s everyone doing on here? I hope everyone is doing fine and getting on with whatever projects etc. So anyway yesterday was our 4th year wedding anniversary so we decided go do a mini getaway and go to our favourite place in UK.

We are currently in Bournemouth enjoying the sunshine, the beaches, the performances at the dance pavilion and the like..It’s just a fun packed weekend but most importantly getting our deserved rest.

I just wanted to say “hi”and hopefully we shall catch up real soon. Have a fab weekend everyone.


Always remember those who stood by you when life was the most difficult. It’s easy to have friends when life is peachy and when you have money. But those who stand with you when you have a little or nothing… those who were willing to believe in your dream when their was no progress, those who stood by you despite your mistakes, those are the faithful few who should have access to you. Those are the ones you trust. The problem is that .many grant too much access too soon to those who do so little or add hardly no value to their life. If you aren’t a priority to them, then why should they be a priority for you? Relationships are give and take. We must learn identify the competing voices, be loyal, follow through on our word, and not abandon one another in moments of crisis. Those who leave you are simply revealing their level of maturity and commitment to you and your cause. What infuriates me the most is when people leave uncomfortable situations instead of working through things and then blame it on the Lord. Excuses are lame. It’s not spiritual at all. They will move on to the next new thing but chances are the pattern will repeat itself again. They may come back but don’t give them the same amount of access or influence. Trust must be earned. Have a blessed weekend everyone

Wrong relationship

Sometimes people get into relationships knowing from onset that relationship is wrong for them but somehow they allow it and encourage it. Why? Well it’s simple there is definitely something amis in their life and they know it but because they have fear and can’t admit to the wrong choice they just allow what may be to be because they think it will make them feel better and ad long as they can fulfil the other person’s desires they are okay with that.

The danger which lies with a choice like that is that they may never come out of that situation or relationship the same way they went in it. Some unions make people and others break people. I remember this guy that came from a good background i.e better opportunities in life. Went to the best schools and lived in different countries and at one point was the youngest ambassador to train other diplomats and lived in the best houses and had amazing friends. How you ask how does a person like that come from that to the pits of hell. Well it’s lack of self-worth. If you lack in something you will not know quality from quantity,ordinary to extra ordinary, gain from loss etc. One ought to put a spring in their step, put premium in their words and not talk anywho nor anyhow. Words have quality if your careful.

Choices can de a definition of you and who you are and become to a certain degree. Positive relationships make good people and this proves that you can only attract what you are yourself and what you put out in the universe. Many people have asked questions like why do bad people happen to good people? I mean come on how does darkness and light mix? Bad people don’t just happen, they have been for a long time and can only attract such and once they attract that which is foreign to them they fight it, destroy it.

People don’t go in a relationship blind folded and all that nonsensial talk about “love is blind” is just ignorance. I always tell people if someone shows you who they really are even in their slightest form, believe them.

This is the reason why I started mentoring people about relationships. It’s such a vital role and once you get it right from the beginnning life becomes sweet and nothing affects you. When challenges come you even get excited because you know who you are and you put premium on your words and quality on your choices you become a barrier breaker and a full force. It’s remarkable what a few shots in the right direction can do to a person. Be the force that you want to see in the world and remember put PREMIUM on your words. Till next time have a great week.

Love Mrs S.

Life Choices

Successful people have two things on their lips, “smile and silence”. Smile can solve a problem, Silence can avoid problems. Sugar and salt may be mixed together but ants reject the salt and carry away only the sugar. Select the right people in life and make your life better and sweeter. If you fail to achieve your dreams, change your ways not your God. Remember, trees change their leaves and not their roots. You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks. Haters will see you walking on water and say its because you can’t swim. Even if you dance on water, your enemies will accuse you of raising dust. Make it your ambition to live a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your own hands. Remember, don’t ever wrestle with a pig. You’ll both get dirty, but the pig will enjoy it. — Be Inspired and have a great day . Till next time

Love you all.

Mrs S.


Hello everyone

I haven’t blog posted in a while, it’s been a crazy few weeks with a lot happening this year and my work life has experienced a lot of changes this year. Outside that life is good and have continued enjoying life daily.

How is everyone doing and what’s been going on with y’all? I would love to start interacting with all my followers.

I also want to take a minute to thank all that have signed up recently to follow my blog via email. Thank you very much.

Have a great weekend and catch up real soon. 😙

True love

A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself- to laugh with me,but never at me, to cry with me, but never because of me, to love life, to LOVE HIMSELF, to love being love. Such a relationship is based on freedom and can never grow in a Jealous heart. Beg to differ? Share your thoughts please.

Have a great weekend and catch up real soon as we continue the series of women who change when in relationships.

Protect your circle

Good morning

Just wanted to see how everybody is doing? Hope y’all doing well and keeping healthy. Remember to protect your crown and look after yourself.

Be kind and gentle to your spirit. Enjoy your life now and let tomorrow take care of itself.

It’s been a busy few weeks but I am doing good and enjoying life daily. Don’t allow your challenges or whatever your going through to stop you enjoying your life now.

I just wanted to encourage somebody out there that you are not your problems. Your circumstances don’t define you, your situation does not define you, your lack does not determine your future.

Delay is not denial so pick yourself up and do what you can do and only focus on that which you can do and change because remember God’s got your back and I got your back to charge you along and most importantly YOU got your back too.

Have a great day and be you. Be a barrier breaker.

Love always

Mrs Stern xoxox